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Yeah, all right, let's talk about James Damore. It's been eight years, and I really doubt Harj (who was my boss at the time) is the only person for whom it was a formative experience. For those of you who have no recollection of any of this, either because you are wisely an offline person or because you got outraged for five minutes and then forgot all about it, James Damore was a Google software engineer who wrote a memo arguing that, while diversity and inclusion were good goals, bias was not the main reason there weren't more women in tech, and differences in personality between men and women probably explained a lot of it. There was a lot in the memo that felt like a distraction to me, or where I had a nitpick, but fundamentally it was not only basically correct (women are less likely than men to become software engineers, and this is not only because of bias), but also Damore was saying this for the sake of having a more productive conversation about how to get more women into tech, a goal that everyone around him was fervently espousing. The memo has a painful-in-hindsight quality of earnestness: "you want more women in tech, and I think you're mistaken about how to get there! if I show you some published psychology research we can actually design better means to your goal!". Anyway. The internet was outraged. He got fired from Google. And he applied to the tech hiring startup I worked at, Triplebyte, which offered background-blind screening to anyone who wanted to be a software engineer. We really believed in the mission, at Triplebyte. I think I ended up kind of badly calibrated about how earnest to expect people to be everywhere else. We found people working as janitors and line cooks and homemakers who could code, and we got them 6 figure jobs, and we were proud of it. James Damore did very well on our tests. I got assigned to write him a profile for our companies. And then people freaked out. A lot of them had the impression that he would create a hostile environment for any woman he worked with, and thought that trying to help him get a new job was tantamount to endorsing everything in his wildly controversial memo. I didn't even like the memo that much, but I was kind of horrified, because - it's one thing to get fired for talking about politics at work in a way that causes a massive national firestorm. I kind of expect that we would all get fired for that. But it is another thing entirely to get effectively blacklisted from your industry, to have people decide on the basis of your political opinions that we shouldn't even put you up on the platform and let companies decide individually whether to schedule interviews. Tech jobs were not that hard to come by in 2017 if you were really good at your job, and Damore was. Firing isn't that threatening to software engineers. Blacklisting is terrifying. I'd been at Triplebyte for like six months at this point, it was my first job after graduation, and I was honestly way out of my lane, but I made a pretty big fuss internally. (It helped that I suspected a lot of people agreed with me but I was a woman and it was safer for me to say it.) I said that we were not in the business of deciding who had good politics, that we shared this country with many people who profoundly disagreed with each other, that companies could assess for themselves if he worked respectfully with female engineers, and that we should put him on the site and let them decide. We did. And then Harj was immediately contacted by recruiters from companies we worked with that were horrified that we had. They felt that by not banning him from our platform we were endorsing his memo, that we were showing values not in line with their priorities. Harj talks about this more in the linked podcast. James Damore was egregiously wronged. To my knowledge he's a good software engineer with extremely reasonable, approximately accurate opinions about the reasons there were fewer women in software engineering, which he shared in good faith, and a lot of people who should've known better really did try to drive him out of the industry for it. It was wrong. If it is done to people on the basis of any other political opinion it is also wrong then. We need, as a society, the ability to live with disagreement, to dislike each other without trying to destroy each other, to find common ground instead of finding heretics; I believed that at Peak Woke and I believe it now.
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Harj Taggar
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Had a lot of fun going on the Social Radars! It's my first time talking publicly about customers threatening to boycott and employees threatening to quit because I didn't ban James Damore from using Triplebyte to find a new job after being fired by Google in 2017. Feels like a x.com/jesslivingston…
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Kelsey Piper
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I also want to say - I don't know anyone who got the Eich and Damore cases right because they correctly anticipated the left would provoke a destructive backlash. Everyone I know who got them right did it through a principled commitment to old-fashioned liberalism.
I mean realistically I think that 99% of us would get fired if we wrote a dumb clumsy internal memo that caused a national firestorm. "causing the company catastrophic PR damage" maybe shouldn't be fireable, but usually is. What scared me was the efforts to then blacklist.
It all started about 20 years ago. I used to see this older gentleman at a coffee shop, always meeting with young men, and it left an impression on me. I eventually struck up a conversation with him, and he told me that God had called him to help younger guys avoid the mistakes
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I had no idea this was happening. I was pretty Damore-sympathetic at the time, I think I was open about it, and it never occurred to me to worry about losing employment over it. Seems wild that you'd get in trouble for hosting him on a job site!
I just today learned from the podcast the extent of the pushback Harj got! I got a vibe he felt pretty pressured but I had no idea until today
I hear everything you're saying. I still think the right response now is to track down everyone who tried to blacklist him from the industry and do the same to them.
just one more ideologically motivated purge and we'll be free of everyone who wants to do ideologically motivated purges
Personally I think most of the blowback came about because he used the normal distribution curve image incorrectly
I share some of this author's disagreements with the memo. That does not make any of what went down defensible or not cancel culture.
We dealt with this at as well. But I'm very proud to say we handled it differently and did not ban James or treat him in any special way. He was a top performer in mock interviews and got to talk to companies based on his interview performance, just like anyone
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sorry try reading the post and then if you think there is anything I should have done differently you can tell us all about it but it'll land as way less stupid if you read the post
pretty sure he stayed up on the platform and got at least a couple interviews through it but took a job off-platform, but my job was profiles and I was really very junior, I don't know for sure what all went down at later stages
Wait, people tried to get him blacklisted from the INDUSTRY over that?!?!?! What the actual fuck. I am deeply confused by the internal experience people can have that makes that acceptable behaviour. Thank you for standing up for sanity
This (and the censorship that followed) alienated a lot of people from the left, even though far more still haven't heard of it. We absolutely need to revisit this as a society, and I hope we can do so without the crassness of the woke/anti-woke feud.
Wait so just to be clear, Harj stood his ground in the end? Did the people who called and threatened to boycott actually follow through?
pretty sure he stayed up on the platform and got at least a couple interviews through it, no idea about the boycotts I was super junior and it wasn't my wheelhouse
Did you forget that the version leaked, circulated and mocked, including by your colleagues at Vox, was an edited version where the sources and references had been removed?
And mfs still wanna pretend there hasn't been anti-white descrimination for the better part of 10 years
I'll be straight with you: at Triplebyte I saw systematic preference for women and against H1Bs and F1s but I did not see anti-white racism. I left in 2018 though.
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I can also say, knowing James personally, he is the most mild mannered and reasonable guy. What happened to him really drove home how it could happen to anyone. IIRC his memo was circulating inside Google for weeks and not out of bounds of the arguments going on at the time, but
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Great writeup, and also a shoutout for Triplebyte. I had an MSCS from a non-target school and couldn't get the time of day in Silicon Valley. Triplebyte accepted me and got me my first job. Shame they're not around anymore. It was a good mission.
I used to run the internal republicans@ mailing list at Google back then. It's been a while, but I will say that the political divide over Damore was likely bigger than the gender divide.
He posted the most lukewarm, overly charitable take on the issue and still got fired and blacklisted. It's a small taste of what White men have been putting up with for quite a while now. I myself left salaried work in disgust just a few years before this went down.
👏 The totalitarian woke outrage machine was intense. But I doubt woke is permanently dead. Just as MAGA seemed completely dead in 2020 and roared back, so too could we see woke roar back within the decade.
The context of why he wrote the memo was a key part of what made his treatment horrific & people that worked hard to crucify him fit only to be treated as they would have him be in civil society.
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I read his memo and it was entirely reasonable, if some of the points may have been fairly debatable. The completely deranged reaction was so wacked out it signaled to me that there was a dangerously unhinged cohort afoot in the tech world.
Unfortunately, the blacklist will have to come back against Communism and Wokism (which is just applied Communist ideology) for them to care about blacklists again. The left in this country truly embodies the Frank Herbert quote, "When I am Weaker Than You, I ask you for Freedom
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"We need, as a society, the ability to live with disagreement, to dislike each other without trying to destroy each other, to find common ground instead of finding heretics; I believed that at Peak Woke and I believe it now." We also need to burn the witch hunters
Damore's over-earnestness is also typical of people on the Spectrum, which Damore comes across as being. You'd think that woke people would have been sympathetic to his obvious "neurodivergent" behavior. It didn't help that people were deliberately misinterpreting his memo.
Facts Woke discrimination in Silicon Valley has indirectly killed literally millions of people
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If discrimination against white people doesn't exist (as leftists are so fond of telling us) then why did millions of people die from it? questioner.substack.com/p/superforecas
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What's missing here is that he shared the memo in an internal, private chat forum at Google set up specifically for the purpose of discussing that very issue. He didn't create a national firestorm; some petty tyrant in the forum leaked it to the media. And Google fired him for
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I wish I could like this more than once. The reaction to the memo was ridiculous. He definitely got a few facts wrong, but overall his assessment that the existing approaches to attracting more women wouldn't work and were discriminatory was spot on. We see they haven't worked.
idk "the firing was ok but the blacklisting was not" seems impractical... a lot of the reasons for Damore being fired were going to follow him to any similar position, no?
Good post. I think when the general tone on discussing any of this is presented as a no go, it enables the deepest fringe to have a bit of a point (eg I pretty broadly defend Damore, but I think going on Molyneaux's podcast post-memo was his worst call; maybe an analogy there).
I remember reading Damore's memo when I was at Google and thinking that he needed to take a remedial course in statistics (to be fair, statistics and probability are not intuitive, but neither is computer programming).
As always, massive respect for living out your convictions there. Thanks for giving a voice to so many that aren't in a position to have their own.
Ironically after all the controversy even today when it comes to programming ICs (non-managerial positions) I assume there are more men than women in those roles at Google
I remember and agreed with him. Have worked in IT all my life and the women who “do” are few…barely increasing in recent years in the true technology roles. They/we all have a very distinct personality type. Our way of thinking & connecting with others that is not “typical”.
Damore did basically everything right, but because it "perpetuated harmful stereotypes", an obviously competent man got screwed over for trying to help. I said almost the same thing back then. This story about his chance with Triplebyte just makes it even more horrifying.
Oh man, the most controversial things I saw are in-group conversations w/ other folks w/ minoritized identities b/c like the actual on the ground folks know it's actually all a messy difficult conversation that I sometimes think the super woke folks are just trying to avoid.
Sorry for the back-handed compliment but this is a great and honest take on the matter even though you write for Vox? I thought the party line over there was "cancel culture isn't real" "cancel culture is exaggerated" "cancel culture is just accountability" and so on
I read the memo and found it to be mostly true, and was not offended. But the backlash was incredible. Poor guy.
I think it was the first time I saw that I was being outright lied to by The Guardian, having read the memo myself.
Write out a good argument and good story, end with mentioning "peak woke" which just shatters it, too bad.
Sad episode in Google’s history. I was there when James memo was shamed in most dishonest ways. It was terrible to see smart colleagues blaming him for things he never said, or rejecting the basic idea that women might have different psychological profiles than men.
My hypothesis is that the leaders of these companies cower before very vocal employees, cower before authoritarian states abroad, and cower before thuggish politicians in DC. For these alleged masters of the future economy, the common thread is cowardice.
We need to find the part of Kelsey’s brain that’s broken and break it in everyone else’s brains too. That’d make the world more gentle.
Yeah, that was utterly insane. His memo was a good faith effort to advance workplace equity, but because he didn't use the Officially Sanctioned Verbiage, he got destroyed for it. People lost their minds.
GOOGLE FUCKING ASKED FOR FEEDBACK AND HE GAVE IT (honestly, like the on-the-spectrum, can't-read-the-room Phd dork that he is.). There was nothing whatsoever at all incorrect about his memo.
James Demore committed one of the cardinal sins: He listened to complaining women and offered them solutions. For that grave crime, he was destroyed.
How come nobody ever eats shit for this stuff? Like, it'd be nice to get the lead media instigators on camera and say: "hey, *you actively tried to ruin a human being's life for non-egregious reasons.* Why are you such human shit? Discuss."
The first lesson people need to learn about why you do not allow communist ideas in your society, and you shun communists, is because they're all dysgenic freaks and their entire ideology rests on resentment They don't allow disagreement because any idea defeats theirs
I never really developed a strong opinion of whether or not Damore's arguments were right, but I was completely appalled at the situation of how everyone reacted to it. Even if you think he was wrong, okay that's fine people can be wrong, and it's not the end of the world!
The Mozilla CEO Brendan Eich was forced out because he had donated to the Yes on Prop 8 campaign. Which was PASSED by a majority of California voters. Apparently even holding the majority opinion at the time was beyond the pale.
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James Damore was formative for me too. I read his perfectly reasonable memo, and the witch-burning horrified me. Formative in turning me anti-woke. Kelsey writes for Vox, which, when I was reading it regularly, was woke-central. I admire her for writing this. Things are changing. x.com/KelseyTuoc/sta…
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